Bringing home a new family member with scales, feathers or fur? Here's how to introduce them to your kids

Few things tend to excite children more than the prospect of meeting their future best friend. For parents, the situation probably feels a little more nerve wracking.

Early introductions can quickly go astray without the right approach, so it’s important to plan carefully if you want to keep tails wagging.

Deciding what type of pet will work best for your family is the first step to success.

Many parents naturally lean towards rabbits, mice or guinea pigs to start, but RSPCA ACT’s Michelle Robertson says ‘pocket pets’ often aren’t suitable for inexperienced owners.

“They can be fun for older kids who are ready to take on more responsibility. But as natural prey animals, most pocket pets just won’t feel safe around an enthusiastic toddler,” Michelle says.

“Some species are just better suited to family life than others.

“Dogs and cats are the most popular choices for good reason. They are generally social, good at communicating their needs, and offer a mix of energetic play and quiet time.”

Michelle also recommends fish, which come in many beautiful varieties, and rats, for their intelligent and friendly nature.

When you’re ready for the big introduction, take a moment to sit down beforehand and remind your kids to let their pet socialise at its own pace.

“Think carefully about how your children are likely to react,” Michelle says.

“Being excited is wonderful, but many animals would be terrified if a squealing child ran towards them.

“If they feel threatened, your new dog or cat might growl, scratch or even bite. This is an awful situation for everyone involved, but can usually be avoided with proper guidance.”

No matter how well they get along, remember to take things slowly and always supervise your child when they spend time with pets.

Communication is key in keeping everybody happy – parents included. Just like any family adventure, bringing a new personality into the household is a team effort.

“Your expectations need to be crystal clear,” Michelle says.

“Yes, your children need to be calm and respectful around the new dog, but have you explained why?

“By pointing out that dogs can be nervous around strangers, just like some kids, you create an opportunity to understand and empathise.”

Keep in mind that it’s not all doom and gloom if things are an effort for a while. As long as it’s safe to do so, Michelle says perseverance is well worth the wait.

“Pets are amazing teachers that help us develop our empathy, compassion and patience,” she says.

“When they interact nicely with an animal, children practise being responsible and build self-confidence.

“If at first you don’t succeed, take a deep breath, regroup and try again. You’ll probably be glad you did.”

If you are interested in adopting a pet from RSPCA ACT and want to learn more, visit its website.