As Martin Fisk sat in the stands watching the Gungahlin Bulls play in specially designed jerseys with the Menslink logo on their sleeves on Saturday afternoon (15 June), his phone pinged in his pocket.
As the CEO of the men’s mental health charity glanced down at his phone, he realised it wasn’t just an ordinary message. It was a young man at the end of his tether, saying he had nothing to live for and was looking for a way out.
He sprang into action and a member of the Menslink team called the struggling man and organised a priority counselling appointment for him at no personal cost. For Mr Fisk, it was yet another reminder about how prevalent men’s mental health is, regardless of age or background.
“As I was there watching the first-grade game, we got an online request from a young man,” Mr Fisk shared. “He said that he had pretty much come to the end of the line and he had run out of options of what to do to get out of his circumstance.
“He received a phone call that day, and a follow-up call on Sunday to see if he was okay and we managed to book him for an appointment on Tuesday (18 June). He got in touch with me this week and thanked me for everything Menslink had done so far for him.”
After the deaths of former players Paul de Dassel and Michael Thompson, who passed away a couple of months ago after battling mental health issues, Gungahlin Bulls wanted to use their annual Old Boys day to not only honour the lives of the two men but to help other men who might be struggling.
So the club president Brad Smith approached Menslink to see how they could help raise money for men struggling with their mental health.
“In their memory, we want to raise some money for a charity to support men’s health and that was Menslink,” he shared. “We had 36 family members from a former player come down for the day so it was massive for his family.
“It was an emotional day. Everyone who played on the field that day came off and said it was good to be part of something and give back to families in the community. If we can save one or two lives of young men, it is the least we can do.”
The jerseys were auctioned off on Saturday night and raised around $3,000 for Menslink, where Mr Fisk spoke to the group about the importance of not being silent.
“One of the challenges we see with a lot of mental health services is that you need to have gone and seen a GP first, you have to have a Medicare card, you need a mental health plan and you need to sign up and see a psychologist,” Mr Fisk said.
“That whole process can take weeks and sometimes it can be too hard. One of our philosophies at Menslink is that if you are in trouble, you can get to see someone quickly with no cost and no fuss.
“Let’s not book people in for three months time, let’s do something now.”