Canberra woman accused of sex with 15 year old

Cameron 25 October 2007 80 has a story about a 41yo woman alledgedly having sex with a 15yo boy in 2005.

She will appear in the ACT magistrates court today.

The article isn’t clear as to whether the boy is 15 now (in which case he was 13 when it happened) or 15 in ’05.

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80 Responses to Canberra woman accused of sex with 15 year old
jalez jalez 5:01 pm 14 Sep 09

Sorry p1, I was googling on the age of consent in NSW and some how I ended up in here lol I didn’t even know it was a forum, so I’ll let you people carry on with what ever you do 😀

btw, i still dig mature women, if any here and want youth power lol

VYBerlinaV8_the_one_they_all_copy VYBerlinaV8_the_one_they_all_copy 1:00 pm 14 Sep 09

Older chicks are often better at keeping the whole sex thing in perspective. Personally, I can’t wait for my wife’s forties!

busgirl busgirl 12:43 pm 14 Sep 09

Yes well…I guess it takes all types to make the world go around doesn’t it…how boring it would be if we all had something intelligent to say all of the time…

p1 p1 11:01 am 14 Sep 09

Wow, that’s gotta be some kind of record for a obscure rant + thread resurrection combination.

busgirl busgirl 10:54 am 14 Sep 09

Pommy bastard said :

It wasn’t until I was in my thirties that I truely apprciated the older woman.

Women in their forties are at a sexual peak.

…well then…only a few more years to go…and all you single men (note: I said ‘men’ not ‘boys’) out there had better watch out 😀

jalez jalez 12:54 am 14 Sep 09

I’m 24 now, but at the age of 17 I had sex with a women who was 33 at the time and to me it was the best sex I have ever had. I always longed for a experienced girlfriend since I first hit puberty, my friends fantasized with mature ladies at the mall, and it’s true, some teens like mature women… trying to get the approval of my friends, this lead me to pursue an experienced woman and so it happened. She had so much experience, she was my ‘teacher’ if you want to call her. She was a tiger, a lioness and hot as hell, I would do anything to meet her again. Sadly, she moved to Europe and raised a family with some guy. I always wondered why she was always insisting on not using condoms, telling me how great it felt blah blah, then after months of talking to her after she left, i found out she wanted to get pregnant at all costs. Well, luckily I always used condoms, just because I felt that I couldn’t trust her 100%, that saved me the child support!~ So I guess, sometimes, young teens search for experience rather than youth. But, that’s, just, like totally, my own opinion, man.

poptarts poptarts 7:59 pm 29 May 09

sorry must correct myself, he wasnt a plactic surgeon, was just a rumour going round.

poptarts poptarts 7:32 pm 29 May 09

#69 posted by KJB

you would know my brother 😀

and i agree, she was my yr co and all the boys in my yr hung around her office there were girls too but sooo many guys.

i say she was an alright teacher cos she gave me good marks and let us cook skittles on the bunsen burners.

poptarts poptarts 7:25 pm 29 May 09

yo, barking toad, she hasnt got saggy tits, she was like a real life babie doll cos her husband is a plastic surgeon, well hes her 2nd husband her first was a really nice guy, anyways yeah she has that much crap done to her she ain’t real any more, and she wore the skimpiest supre` clothes to school and all the guys in my sci class sat up the front and they always went on bout how hot she is, so she wasnt ugly, just like a pedo or something, and that kid she was doing was having problems at home and she was councelling him then she made the first move and told him how she felt then they had a relationship then he told his female friends who knew it was wrong and they had a talk to mrs tominac and she denied everything then she spoke to the kid and was like keep this a secret so he told all his friends it was a joke and she paid him like $5000 to keep his mouth shut.

Carlito Carlito 6:11 pm 23 May 09

#69 – KJB is right about everything.
And i don’t understand whats wrong with people, most teenagers i know would dream to get it on with their teacher. This particular teenager just had the blind, stupid and brave personality to actually go for it, mixed with the stupidity of his teacher it was a perfect match, good on them, problem is it was illegal. There was no ‘rape’, the teacher seduced the boy, the boy seduced the teacher, they both wanted it but the teacher should have known better. So from the boys perspective it makes sense.. he enjoyed it then, bragged about it, who wouldn’t but now hes either pissed at catching an STD or he wants money. In my view he shouldn’t get it, but as for punishment to the teacher i cant say anything really i’m not a judge, but ill be happy if they want to lock her up in my place.

I’m just tired of the media making a big deal about it, if it wasn’t illegal there would be cases of this all the time, sorry to those people who think its crazy older people get attracted to younger people. Seriously consider this, this is a freak case where the male involved turned around and abused his relationship(although illegal still) with the woman, there will likely not be many other boys so cold hearted in the future to do this. For the note i’m just speaking from an angle that people who are shocked from this story need to realize is true.

After reading my post there will be lots of parents changing to home schooling.

lavenderfields lavenderfields 4:31 pm 21 May 09

my son went to SFX and TT was his pastoral care teacher [or whatever]. in my meetings with her, she was certainly neither efficient nor effective as a teacher. The words hopeless and tramp both spring to mind. I am absolutely certain she was grooming my son for s#x. Sad to say it took me a couple of years to wake up and put my son into a different school. I think the principal,is also a tosser who should be put out to pasture. It’s sad that the talents of so many students are indirectly affected by this pair of twits.

KJB KJB 8:13 pm 19 May 09

I attended that perticular school, and was in the same grade as the boy. he is now 18. and i think it should be known that both the teacher and the student were as bad as each other, she would prance around that school in inappriote clothing to teach teenage boys and it was a common thought between us students that she was cheap looking. i remember on many occasions passing her office in the middle of class to get a drink or whatever and her office would be full of students, boys AND girls. it seemed to me that she was trying to be their friend more then be their teacher.
the boy, who ended up in rehab before high school ended, i later learned from an ex-girlfriend would openly brag to his mates in front of her about what had happened with the teacher. i truely think although what happened is wrong that he is trying to get nothing more then a money settlement out of this and wouldn’t be surprised if he started blaming her for the issues he clearly already had before the relationship began. but now the way he used to walk around the school like he owned it and some of the things he did now make sense considering what he had over her.

however, its neither of these people i have sympathetic thoughts about, its her children who were still attending the school when it all came out, that we should consider in this. she may now have no chance of a career but she gave that up when she consented to what happened. her son still attends the school and i couldn’t imagine what it would be like to know that my mother had done that and know my friends knew aswell. her daughter was a year above me and friends with several people in my grade and it would have killed her to find that out.

farnarkler farnarkler 8:16 am 25 Dec 08

Sorry poptop, rape isn’t something I particularly want to read up on.

123qwe 123qwe 9:38 pm 24 Dec 08

#65 – WTF!

Pommy bastard Pommy bastard 4:55 pm 24 Dec 08

It wasn’t until I was in my thirties that I truely apprciated the older woman.

Women in their forties are at a sexual peak.

Those who look after themselves can continue to peak for many years.

peterh peterh 3:02 pm 24 Dec 08

sigh. and at christmas, too. been abused and raped, twice. once by a father and daughter combination, once by a sicko in ainslie village. I am going home now.

good luck to you all.

dexi dexi 2:54 pm 24 Dec 08

Retro_x, rapist nearly always blame the victim. Your comments make me ill. Raped children are messed up. That is an indicator of sexual abuse.

Farnmarkler, its rape when an adult has sex with a child. That’s the law. As for males being raped you are playing into a male myth. An erection is a mechanical reaction as much as anything else. It can lead to much confusion and shame for the victim. Rape is so much more than sex. Being told by an adult that sex is ok is a breach of trust. Being expected to keep the lie is another. Rape is rape when you say no. As a child you can not give consent, so its against the law. I know a few adults with really messed up sexuality and they still hang on to the thought that the older women was ok. It isn’t. Male or female.

Willo, you where lucky they were not around. Life would be a lot more F###up for you now.

chewy14 chewy14 8:45 am 24 Dec 08

Poor Dawn.

poptop poptop 8:36 am 24 Dec 08

If you need to ask about how males can get raped you have led a very sheltered life. Wikipedia is quite informative on the topic.

Research suggests the difference between the reality and fantasy of adolescent [child] males having sex with older women is pretty extreme. Again, the issue is about power and its misuse, rather than the naked romping part.

Paedophilia is paedophilia, regardless of the gender of the perpetrator or victim.

farnarkler farnarkler 6:51 am 24 Dec 08

I’m curious. Firstly, how does a bloke get raped by a woman??? Does she just jump on his hard-on?? Secondly at age 15, how many males would have said no to sex??? When I was that age the crack of dawn wasn’t safe.

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