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“I’d better go, I’ve got the kids in the car”

By Tenpoints - 9 January 2015 28

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First up, I’m a young fit adult who does regular exercise through cycling throughout the year, including through the hottest parts of Summer. I have no particular predisposition to heatstroke.

The following events happened on Wednesday as a prelude to the topic of this discussion.

I met with a friend for Lunch, and was heading into work for the afternoon around 1:30pm (thanks flex-time). I got in the car to drive over to work after it had been parked in full sun. I maxed out the air conditioning (A/C) in order to counter the intense heat of the cabin. I received a call on the handsfree bluetooth while driving, and due to the relatively crappy nature of my car’s microphone, I had to cut the background noise of the A/C going full blast by turning off said A/C. Over the 2 minute phone call, the car temperature skyrocketed up to the point where I was starting to struggle with concentration. I had to end the call abruptly so I could resume the life support that was air conditioning.

Later in the afternoon, I happened to be doing the grocery shop at Woolworths Majura Par. I decided I needed to pick up a few hardware items from Masters. Rather than moving the car again, I decided to leg it across the carparks to Masters, which turned out to be the best part of a kilometre in distance. The heat on the asphalt was oppressive, and by the time I got into the store I was sweating buckets.

As I was picking out my items from the irrigation aisle, I overheard a man a few metres away with one of the sales assistants. The topic was fairly mundane, but my ears pricked up when the man said “I had better go, I’ve got the kids in the car”. I sneaked a look at the middle aged father and had a quick think. Has he really left his kids out in the car on a day like this? To my mind, (and no I don’t have kids yet), it is not OK to leave the kids in a hot car while you bathe for minutes on end in the air conditioned shops.

For those who haven’t seen this video, it’s a pretty confronting indicator as to the potential severity of this decision.

I didn’t call him out at the time, but I wish I had now. Another day and no lesson learned. I acknowledge I have a pretty strong viewpoint on one side of this argument. What do you think?

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zllauh 11:37 am 04 May 15

personally , i have never seen anyone leaving his/her small baby into the car all alone like that!
Even if it is not about the car heating up, babies are not to be left alone like that . that is why they are ‘termed’ as ‘babies’ and we as ‘adults’ who should take care of them.

harvyk1 5:30 pm 13 Jan 15

At some point over the last 25 years, we’ve become soft. I still remember as a kid of the 80’s it was not exactly uncommon for mum to leave us in the car whilst she would quickly run into the shops and pick something up, and back then we did not have a car with air conditioning.

Instead of this current “oh my god won’t someone please think of the children” levels of craziness which we now see, most of us humans used to be able to judge risk and danger.

In a way I’m also susceptible to this. I realised that my 7 year old daughter is the same age I was when I used to go riding my bike up Simpsons hill with a mate of the same age. The basic rule was be home before dinner time (which I managed to do most times), and don’t get into trouble. We had no mobile phones, no GPS trackers and no way to get in contact with our parents / vice versa, and yet that was considered normal. These days we’re questioning if we’d let our daughter walk 6 houses down to a friends place by herself.

As for the OP, unless you actually saw kids in the car in distress, honestly you know nothing. A vague comment over heard by someone who was not directing that comment to you. How do you know it was not his wife and kids? How do you know that his kids where not 17 and 19? How do you know that there was even kids involved and it wasn’t just an excuse to get out of there?

Finally, to put it bluntly, the moment you have kids is the moment you realise that you don’t actually know anything about kids. Until then, non-parents always feel that they know more about kids than parents do (another thing I myself was guilty of, I thought I knew all there was to know about kids until I had some of my own).

Gismondo 4:09 pm 13 Jan 15

crackerpants said :

You overheard something, you didn’t act on it, so that’s the end of it really. Anything else is just wild speculation.

Sums it up fine, in fact he speculated on what he overheard and used it as bait for his community message

Gismondo 4:05 pm 13 Jan 15

The car i drive to work doesn’t have AC, handsfree or bluetooth. Oh Please Gen Y, i beg you, #SendHelp at once

Evilomlap 12:55 pm 13 Jan 15

Monomyth said :

Should you come across the kids in the car first as opposed to the parent, call NRMA. Select the option for ‘child or animal trapped in the car’ and they will send someone out to get them out, free of charge, and you are not liable for damages sustained during the prison break.

That’s all well and good in theory. But it’d still take them precious minutes to get there. In the case of the video above, the kid had already passed out. If I came across that situation, I wouldn’t mess around making a phone call. It’d be window smashing time.

Monomyth 8:27 am 13 Jan 15

Should you come across the kids in the car first as opposed to the parent, call NRMA. Select the option for ‘child or animal trapped in the car’ and they will send someone out to get them out, free of charge, and you are not liable for damages sustained during the prison break.

Masquara 6:14 pm 12 Jan 15

Evil_Kitten said :

74Daizies said :

I have a real problem with leaving kids in the car.. even for just a minute. I have two children btw. I would never leave them in the car in the heat! Should I come across this at any point in the future I will be calling the Police and getting permission to smash a window. Kids die in minutes in cars. Might also add that I would do the same thing should I see an animal in a locked car on a hot day.

What about paying for petrol? I absolutely would. I would even argue that the whole process of wrangling them in and out of the car in the heat, for 30 secs of aircon time when you’re lining up to pay, would be hotter than leaving them for a couple of minutes lol.

Petrol bowsers are in the shade, so I guess it would be safe to leave a kid in the car briefly while you pay for petrol …

Evil_Kitten 2:52 pm 12 Jan 15

74Daizies said :

I have a real problem with leaving kids in the car.. even for just a minute. I have two children btw. I would never leave them in the car in the heat! Should I come across this at any point in the future I will be calling the Police and getting permission to smash a window. Kids die in minutes in cars. Might also add that I would do the same thing should I see an animal in a locked car on a hot day.

What about paying for petrol? I absolutely would. I would even argue that the whole process of wrangling them in and out of the car in the heat, for 30 secs of aircon time when you’re lining up to pay, would be hotter than leaving them for a couple of minutes lol.

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