26 June 2024

I don’t believe in leaving negative online reviews. Here’s why

| Zoya Patel
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Online reviews make it easy to complain, but often, a personal touch will result in a better outcome. Image: File.

I’ve worked in communications and marketing for well over a decade, and the bane of my existence has been dealing with negative online reviews.

Unsurprisingly, people are far more likely to go to the effort of leaving a review on Google or social media if they’re angry than if they’re pleased, and most often, the issues they raise could have been dealt with had they raised them in person at the time.

I’ve helped numerous small business owners over the years in a wide range of industries, and the impact of negative reviews on their businesses and their personal well-being can be considerable – it’s natural to feel defensive and frustrated when you haven’t had the opportunity to respond directly.

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My advice is always the same: respond on whatever platform the review was left on and ask the reviewer to get in touch to discuss. They never do get in touch, but the worst thing a business can do is ignore a bad review or reply defensively.

My experience with reviews from a marketing perspective has influenced my own behaviour when it comes to leaving reviews – I will never post a negative review unless I’ve tried to raise the issue directly and the business hasn’t engaged or provided a reasonable solution.

I will never leave a negative review on a gig economy app for rideshare or delivery services. Why? Because the workers are already being paid poorly and reliant on an inconsistent income, I certainly don’t want to make things worse by complaining that my food was cold when it arrived or that the car aircon was too cold.

The one exception to this is safety-related concerns – if I’m in an Uber and the driver is making me feel uncomfortable or unsafe, I’ll report it to the app.

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I feel that the ability to review services online, with the distance of the screen between you and the human impact of your actions, means it’s easy to lash out without considering communicating directly. To me, it’s all part of the same culture that drives online trolling and bullying. The customer isn’t always right, and there can be any number of reasons why something goes wrong when you’re receiving a service – businesses can only rectify issues if they’re alerted to them at the time.

But plenty of people disagree with my approach – the flip side to negative reviews is that they can force accountability and also offer other potential customers insight to inform their decision-making.

With the economy the way it is, and the cost of doing business taking a toll not just financially for business owners, but mentally, I’d prefer to approach issues with kindness before potentially damaging a business’ reputation. Am I in the minority here?

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I usually never leave any reviews (good or bad) and I rarely check out reviews left by others. In general, I think it is a flawed system with too many dummy or exaggerated reviews posted either by the company (good) or by opposition (bad). However, I have started leaving negative reviews for cafes that have blaring music playing because that practice ruins the experience for two main groups of customers (those wanting to catch up with others for a chat and those looking for a quiet place to read or otherwise chill out).

devils_advocate10:19 am 27 Jun 24

More and better information makes markets work more effectively.

Disagree. Culture is changing and I see plenty of businesses getting positive reviews. It’s not just angry rants any more. Many businesses have got away with delivering poor service for years knowing that word of mouth really doesn’t reach that far, and now online reviews have allowed greater reach for people to call this out. The odd bad review here or there is bound to happen due to misunderstandings, or even a completely unreasonable customer. Most people are smart enough to know that. However, when you see a business that has more bad reviews than good, I can tell you from experience that they have probably earned those negative reviews and need to lift their game.

I definitely agree with views expressed in this article – the ease of publishing and lack of moderation on social media has much to be blamed for here though.

But it must be remembered that the whole purpose of doing a review is to inform others of your experience. If it’s a good experience, the business gets value. If it’s a bad review, the business still gets value in knowing it needs to lift it’s game and where – they can always leave an acknowledgement to balance the review.

That said, reviews do need to be fair with negative ones not exaggerated or misleading, as it can unnecessarily lose business for the proprieter. Everyone has bad days. I recently had a bad experience with a business which was going to lead to missed opportunity (and greater cost for me) and I then left a review on Google. The proprieter left a return comment, I returned to discuss the matter, he rectified the situation, and I deleted the review.

Oh absolutely I have left negative reviews. Between the two houses that I have purchased and had fully renovated over the last 18 years, I have dealt with dozens of different companies and all but a couple have been excellent and if there have been any issues, they have been reasonable about rectifying them.

…then there are the other ones – those that actively try and lie and screw over the customer. I believe that prospective customers have the right to be able to look these companies up and see how they treat their clients.

Another lesson learned is that Fair Trading is entirely useless, toothless and couldn’t care less, even when presented with copious amounts of photographic and e-mail evidence of the lies. Unfortunately you can’t leave a review of them.

I couldn’t agree more, an excellent article, Zoya.

Business owners take enormous financial risk, and are often working harder than their employees, in many cases taking home less than the paid staff. If they are genuinely doing their best, then ‘praise in public, criticise in private’.

We had one negative review on trip advisor – and when I called the guest, she couldn’t really remember her concerns – the one she could remember was that it was cold and rainy in Katoomba, and instead of using the 1 hour available to her for ‘free time’ to go and grab a cuppa in the warm cafe 200m away, she chose to sit out on the cold platform – yet that was our fault. So the review is there on tripadvisor for all time. She really could have spoken with us at the time.

We also had a customer who wrote a ‘draft review’ which would be published if we didn’t provide a prompt and full refund. Business owners are normally super conscious of the ‘weaknesses’ of their product, and having this visciously spelt out in minute detail was cruel, and really caused us a lot of distress.

Thankfully we had a lot of guests who were full of praise for what we were trying to do.

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