Charmyne Palavi engaged to a 22 year old

Hey Charmyne, relax.

Anyone who believes what the media has to dribble is too stupid to suck oxygen. You do NOT have to defend yourself for daring to live. The world needs more like you.

Good luck to you, I hope you have a good future, and the jealous small minded inbreds can go nob an unlubricated chicken.

Your husband to be is a lucky bloke. Hope he realises it.
Cheers,
Fisho.

Scantily clad? aaaah we are back to the what she was wearing rant again. For the comment that I have photos of myself draped all over footballers – r u aware that it was just a night out with some girlfriends who also had their pics taken with players,along with many many women in that venue that night. I didnt take these pics they were posted on a friends facebook page and had been for over a month before anyone even made a fuss. So its ok for other women to get their pics taken -just not ME? The Australian team on this night had their shirts all off & were dancing til the early hours of the morning with girls on tables in very compromising positions – its funny tho how the media latched onto a couple of ‘casual snaps’ taken of me with some footballers??? I suppose it makes for a better story hey.
How disgusting that because Im a mum that it seems I dont have a right to go out every now and again, it was Melbourne Cup and my children were with a nanny.
Same shit on here day in day out… attacks on my age, my looks & my ability to be a good mother, get some new material.

ps – I didn’t write many pieces of that Daily Telegraph story, as if I would write I had been with “many many” footballers when thats not the case. I was asked to write a summary to add to the bottom of the story and I did, I asked to have that line changed and they didnt, then it was put in the newspaper as if I had written it.

Look at the end of the day I could go on and on but would it really matter? You have formed your opinion of me already from the media fabricated stories & regardless of how much I try to set the record straight they will always print what they want,whether it be true or not.
Case in point – WHO Magazine claiming they had interviewed me and then went on to “quote” me. I have never spoken to them in my life.

Enjoy your forum and hi to the media types on here who filter the info posted on here back to Dave u think we dont talk all the time? LOSERS

Fisho said :

She’s hot, she’s happy, she’s marching to the beat of her own drum.

Good for her I say.

+1. Who am I to judge what goes on between behaviour beteween consentting adults?!

As long as your kids are OK Charmayne, and you and your partner are happy, then good on you.

Granny said :

Art said :

What proof do you have that Charmyne is ‘mentally inept’?

I believe her cognitive abilities, or lack there of, are evident for all to see.

That’s an interesting ‘evidence base’, however lacking in scientific rigour ….

Scientific evidence is evidence which serves to either support or counter a scientific theory or hypothesis.
My theory/hypothesis is she is mentally inept and her maturity is lacking.

Scientific evidence should be empirical, meaning gained via observation and/or experience.
I have observed her comments and behaviour in the media. My observations are her behaviour is erratic, immature and will likely be self destructive later in life, when she is forced by age to quit the party life style as opposed to giving it up gracefully. My experience with people like her first hand also lends proof to my hypothesis.

She’s hot, she’s happy, she’s marching to the beat of her own drum.

Good for her I say.

Loose Brown said :

I reckon you are awesome Charmyne!

Good on you Charmyne. Don’t feel any need to carry on the conversation though … because people (the majority) who aren’t ill-meaning trolls never needed your comment to understand where you’ve been coming from.

Art, you thou art a Gawd

+1 Art

Still, waiting for Charmayne (cough cough)to say something on Twatter/Fakebook.

Art said :

What proof do you have that Charmyne is ‘mentally inept’?

I believe her cognitive abilities, or lack there of, are evident for all to see.

That’s an interesting ‘evidence base’, however lacking in scientific rigour ….

Art said :

Granny said :

Question:

Who would you rather be stuck in a lift with?

a) Scantily clad woman with large breasts and a spray tan who minds her own business and talks happily about her new fiance and their wedding plans, or
b) Somebody who will ridicule, disrespect, criticise, berate, taunt and purposefully humiliate you, put you down, call you names, reject you, make you feel unimportant and make unkind comments about your clothes, appearance and sex life; regardless of whether that lowers your self-esteem and sense of self-worth, gives you an inferiority complex or causes you to feel clinically depressed.

I would prefer the latter. I would give the latter no reason to act in such a way towards me, meaning we could probably have a nice mature chat in the life.

Since the characteristics of the latter were taken from an article on verbal abuse, I am surprised that you are supportive of such people. However, each to their own.

Granny said :

Art said :

I would suggest that the blame for the increasingly shallow view of woman is a consequence of woman like you.

And I would suggest that the blame for the increasingly disrespectful view of women is a consequence of people like yourself.

What proof do you have that Charmyne is ‘mentally inept’?

I believe her cognitive abilities, or lack there of, are evident for all to see. Her actions and words are the proof.
As for your first comment, well, I will simply have to try harder to meet your expectation of how I should show respect for women. Perhaps I’ll start by going to the rugby club, finding the first tipsy scantily clad girl, hanging off her while complimenting her huge rack and then nailing her at my place! Would that be less disrespectful? Because according to you, wanting woman to exercise confidence and maturity is very disrespectful.

Granny said :

Question:

Who would you rather be stuck in a lift with?

a) Scantily clad woman with large breasts and a spray tan who minds her own business and talks happily about her new fiance and their wedding plans, or
b) Somebody who will ridicule, disrespect, criticise, berate, taunt and purposefully humiliate you, put you down, call you names, reject you, make you feel unimportant and make unkind comments about your clothes, appearance and sex life; regardless of whether that lowers your self-esteem and sense of self-worth, gives you an inferiority complex or causes you to feel clinically depressed.

I would prefer the latter. I would give the latter no reason to act in such a way towards me, meaning we could probably have a nice mature chat in the life.
I would point out that your logic is flawed. If the former were “minding her own business” she would not be talking “happily about her new fiancé and their wedding plans”. More likely though is that the former would be pushing her top down, giggling like a 2yr old and flirting with me in front of my girlfriend.

In any case, it is apparent that many contributors, even those who don’t approve of her ways, are caught up in keeping everything politically correct. Sure, she lives like crap but we mustn’t say anything.

Just trying to emphasis the mundanity of it! 🙂 In a sense. Mind you, it is the sort of newstainment that fills the TV, magazines and clearly, the Internets as well. The cult of celebrity (even if only a minor deity in our grand pantheon) and the ongoing, seemingly primal fascination we have with women’s bodies – what they do with it and who they do it with.

Rosebud – your last post just invalidated your previous post:)

I hear you though.

Woman likes Man with Nice Face and Good Body. Hold the front page would ya? Oh, and she has BREASTS! Can you believe it? BREASTS!

I can’t believe that anyone can have strong opinions about this sort of thing at all! Yawn.

Thats right we should return to the values of the 1950s 🙂

If Charmayne was a 38 year old bloke and had been sleeping with a bunch of chicks in their early twenties I think a whole lot of people on here would be saying things like “on ya mate” “ya stud” “whoaaah !”.

But, because it is a woman she is a slut, not a stud.

What a load of tripe.

As for the argument that because she has slept with a lot of guys her abilities as a mother come in to question, FFS, is this the 1950’s. Get a grip.

Not Charmayne.

she should get out of the self publicity limelight and move along. Come back in a year and tells us how she made good.

Question:

Who would you rather be stuck in a lift with?

a) Scantily clad woman with large breasts and a spray tan who minds her own business and talks happily about her new fiance and their wedding plans, or
b) Somebody who will ridicule, disrespect, criticise, berate, taunt and purposefully humiliate you, put you down, call you names, reject you, make you feel unimportant and make unkind comments about your clothes, appearance and sex life; regardless of whether that lowers your self-esteem and sense of self-worth, gives you an inferiority complex or causes you to feel clinically depressed.

There’s no bizness like ho bizness

-1 Granny and all fellow travellers.

+1 Art

Interesting Charmayne what googling does with your name. I see that you have a Twitter site (and advertise spraytans)and yet no mention of big bad RiotAct. What gives?

Of course I have judged your character on the scantily clad photos and men oggling your breasts. I have to question many aspects on your fitness to give your children a normal caring upbringing.

And what is this News interview you did on 19 May this year in which you said “I don’t deny I’ve had liaisons with many, many footballers,” Was that with 2 or 50 footballers?

I think things are unravelling for you.

To those who say she’s just having fun, she’s not hurting anyone and should be left to do whatever she wants, I would disagree.
And while I could go on and on about the affect of her and others like her on society, I think most poignant would be to actually consider what she’s doing to herself with this lifestyle.

Evan Esar once said “Character is what you have left when you’ve lost everything you can lose.”
She may be having fun now sleeping with men half her age, blowing money on fake tans, tons of make up and barely there clothes. Ultimately though, it won’t last. Michael might say now he’ll think of her the same way when he’s 34 and she’s 50, but he very likely won’t. Probably end up leaving when he finds that decade’s version of Charmyne. And she’ll be left, wrinkled, financially weak, unable to party and unable to carry on a normal life. We all have to grow up, she hasn’t.

If you flaunt your brains you’ll be judged on your brains. If you flaunt your sexuality you’ll be judged on your sexuality. Don’t forget that Charmyne’s “fame” comes from a timely leap onto the bandwagon of the NRL’s pathetic record of abusing the naivety of young female fans.

Charmyne – you’re getting the attention you’ve been seeking. Please don’t tell us “it’s a sad world when a woman can’t have a voice”. There are many great women in this world who do have a voice – you’re just not listening.

It’s pretty incredible the comments about this lady. I first came across her on the 40 corners thing about footballers rooting habits. She certainly has a colourful lifestyle, but here’s the thing. She’s honest about it, she’s enjoying herself, she doesn’t need to hurt or abuse others, she’s not spiteful, and she’s not exploiting anyone. What is the problem? Seriously. It’s not a lifestyle I would live, but what is the problem? She seems like quite a nice, genuine person.

Art said :

I would suggest that the blame for the increasingly shallow view of woman is a consequence of woman like you.

And I would suggest that the blame for the increasingly disrespectful view of women is a consequence of people like yourself.

What proof do you have that Charmyne is ‘mentally inept’? Nothing other than your own prejudice. By making purely subjective derogatory statements like this on a public forum you simply demonstrate mental ineptitude of your own.

Why are ‘moral’ people often so nasty? This is why I no longer go to church.

and for what it’s worth I agree with Art. if you don’t want to be labeled negatively, don’t let people take pictures of you in compromising positions.

this thread gets better and better. it’s orange chick versus the male chauvanist pigs!

Charmyne said :

Tell me how come I am being called a slut?.

The pictures show how quite clearly. Hanging off one or more footballers, prancing around in revealing dresses and prowling for your next hump. I hear so many women complain that men have such a shallow view of them. A hot body and something fun to poke is all they see. I would suggest that the blame for the increasingly shallow view of woman is a consequence of woman like you.
The guys at work were talking about you the day after Four Corners aired. Not commented on your parenting skills or lifestyle, they just said that you “looked like a good lay” and they would like to “hit that meat”. Do you like those sorts of views of you?

In any case, I feel sorry for your kids. I remember in school what kids said the the girl in class whose mum tried to look half her age. I sincerely hope your kids look to other role models and ignore the morally bankrupt and mentally inept wreck of a mother they have been lumped with.

Charmyne…

The criticisms of your love-life and your parenting are unwarranted and made by those whose business it most definitely is not. However, and this in no way justifies those comments, it is a consequence of the media attention, which you must admit you have courted. Whilst I’m sure the money and the spotlight (although fleetingly) is great, you need to understand that you haven’t really done anything that warrants all of this. It’s only your personal life that you have, I’m sure unintentionally, put up for sale and because of that, thick and vicious people with no lives are going to rip into it. In my opinion, you should probably throw away the whole public image thing, unless you do actually have something of substance that can justify it (remember artists? They were famous once.).

And Granny, I agree with you. Women in this society should not be judged on their personal looks. If you love someone, what the hells wrong? Is anyone else in the relationship but the two involved?

Forgetting that last statement; Some over 35 women are god-damn hot!

“Only sluts get fake tans” what drugs are you on.
As for a book deal NO I have no intention or inclination to write a book, and Im not sure if you realise that 99% of the time I am mentioned in the media I have no idea about it until someone tells me. I am not after self promotion, I just want justice served and it will be in a few weeks!

Wraith said :

Hahahahahahahaha this is piss funny

Don’t think anyone here is going to believe you………….

They may not… But do you see any of the big men who thought it would be great to take the piss whilst she couldn’t defend herself (much like many of the deceased that get a mention on here) posting anymore?

If only many of the departed could come and do the same as Charmyne. Good on her.

Plenty of tails between legs now eh boys….I do believe you were all just told.

Hahahahahahahaha this is piss funny

Don’t think anyone here is going to believe you………….

+1 Granny

Yeah great thread. The best part is where the “orange dumb bitch” came and shut down all these whining cowards.

Don’t worry guys, better luck next time at finding someone to talk shit about behind their back, and feel superior to. We can’t have people going out, living their lives, and persuing happiness, can we? Ha ha ha. Oh my god you guys, did I tell you that she’s like totally orange and only sluts get fake tans? Let’s talk about that some more.

Charmyne said :

… its a sad sad world when women cant have a voice.

… and where a woman’s looks and sexuality are considered fair game.

Hey Charmyne. I lyke your nyce rack.

chewy14 said :

But the problem I have is that your motivation seems to be more about self promotion rather than helping others. I don’t think you are as altruistic as you like to make out.

If that is not the case then i apologise.

+1

That is why I am curious about a book deal/manager. That would confirm or deny a lot of my suspicions. As it stands I think in some way you think that all this attention is wonderful!

That said you don’t have to explain yourself to me or anyone for that matter.

Wow I have to say this tread is very entertaining for a Friday arvo, just what I needed. I wish you all the best Charmyne.

Charmyne said :

…you poor excuse for oxygen.

Fair shake of the sauce bottle Charzza.

Charmyne,

if your intentions truly are to help other women not get invovled in the “groupie” lifestyle, then i would support what you are trying to do.

But the problem I have is that your motivation seems to be more about self promotion rather than helping others. I don’t think you are as altruistic as you like to make out.

If that is not the case then i apologise.

Charmyne, I think you’re a very brave woman to speak out on national television as you did and also to come on here and post. I’m sure you’re a great mum and you don’t need to justify yourself to anyone. Who you sleep with, how you dress, and how you choose to live are your business entirely. I wish you and your fiance every happiness, and also your children. It sounds like you all deserve some happiness after everything you’ve been through.

Much love,
Granny

I still would like to know if you have any professional represenatation or a book deal in the works?

coolio knows things, listen

phototext said :

Sounds to me like coolio has some issues downstairs. You can get medication for such things these days.

His first post and liberal use of CAPS…. does this qualify him for rant of the week JB ?

Could be a she. Sounds pretty catty.

I reckon you are awesome Charmyne!

Sounds to me like coolio has some issues downstairs. You can get medication for such things these days.

His first post and liberal use of CAPS…. does this qualify him for rant of the week JB ?

FC said :

Charmyne, I know you probably are used to having peole throw unwarranted and unjustified insults your way wihtout even knowing you – but I just wanted to reassure you not to loose even a blink of sleep over what some of the people commenting on here are saying.
As somewone who read a lot of comments on various subjects on this site – I wouldn’t even trust a lot of the posters with looking after my house plants, as I would expect the plants to wither an die from the negative vibes of some very bitter, judgemental and ignorant people.

+1 FC, I belong to the “whatever floats your boat” camp. If you don’t hurt anyone else, and are happy with yourself, all the power to you. People can, and will think what they want, and judge you on how you look / what others say about you.
Not fitting an easy stereotype I have often found this, it doesn’t bother me anymore though.

+1 @ FC

Charmyne, I know you probably are used to having peole throw unwarranted and unjustified insults your way wihtout even knowing you – but I just wanted to reassure you not to loose even a blink of sleep over what some of the people commenting on here are saying.
As somewone who read a lot of comments on various subjects on this site – I wouldn’t even trust a lot of the posters with looking after my house plants, as I would expect the plants to wither an die from the negative vibes of some very bitter, judgemental and ignorant people.

Am I really orange? is that the best you have?
Tell me how come I am being called a slut? I have been with the father of my children, my first husband and then two reported liasons with footballers?
I spoke up on Four Corners for the hundreds of young women who have contacted me telling me of their own harrowing sexual assaults. If me speaking up to show people the seedy side of football life makes one young girl think twice about being involved in this ‘groupie’ life then its all worth while.

You seem to all forget I was the ‘partner’ of a footballer for nearly ten years so the things I speak of are things I know – not things I myself have engaged in.
The media and so it would seem ignorant members of the public always attack any woman involved with a sportsman and make them out to be a gold digger,whore etc, its a sad sad world when women cant have a voice.

I’d like to remind everyone that now Charmyne has entered the conversation as a participant, personal abuse will lead to moderation.

+1 also

Ok Charmyne lets get serious for a sec,

is it just in the photos are are you really orange?

Seriously you know where to find me come see me sometime that is if you have any game.
Try posting your real name up here and show some balls you gutless shit!

Good on you Charmyne. Rip into them. Do this thread some good.

This Thread FTW

To Coolio…. I cheated on Dave did I – tell me who with? Name them you seem to make out to everyone you know me so well.
And also feel free to name the 50 footballers Ive been with while your at it.

u sit on here on your high & mighty and attack me?

You speak of ‘Dave’ as if you know him then I ask you – do u know he pays no maintenance, do you know that he hit me with my baby in my arms… I could go on & on but it wouldnt mean a thing to you you poor excuse for oxygen.

Seriously you know where to find me come see me sometime that is if you have any game.

Try posting your real name up here and show some balls you gutless s***!

I guess that the thing about moral values is – they’re only valid when you apply your’s to yourself.

Can you still go to the wedding if you have banged the bride? Gonna be a small guest list otherwise.

Re #21 yes the wedding photos should be a hoot. especially if they are mounted

So tell us Charmyne,

1 – Do you have an agent?

2 – When is your tell all book coming out?

Strike while the iron is hot!

coolio said :

oh and she is ugly, that pic is quite a decent one of her but TRUST me when i say she is terrible in really life. guys only look at her tits not her face. and her tits arent even good.

I assume you’ll be posting an image of yourself here, so we can see what a raving beauty you are “coolio”, or are you just a keyboard hero hiding behind the safety of the internet

MOVE ON CHARMYNE YOU LOSER

Oh dear, someone who gets so worked up about another person’s sexual exploits is not really in any position to tell them to “move on”, or indeed to call them a “loser”.

Your ranting and raving about this woman would appear to make you far more of a loser than she is.

wow. charmyne’s answer was well thought out and made a lot of sense. Personally, if she has found a bloke that loves her, and she loves him, good luck to them.

on the other hand, coolio should be the FOTW. personal attacks always win arguments…

SheepGroper said :

Loose Brown has a duck?

Yes! He sent me the bill!

Loose Brown said :

She wouldn’t let you anywhere near her!

Haha! I KNOW!

Horses for courses really. Not all, or probably even 99% of guys would turn to jelly if approached. Some, for sure, for those of us not into her type, and by that I mean nothing more than the stereotypical “attractive” fhm style blonde, we would politely say thanks but no thanks. And potentially a lot of attached guys would say “thanks love, but I’m taken”. Being an ex footy player, I went out with my share of “pretty” people and held true to the footy player stereotype. Then I realised it wasn’t for me .
Obviously lots of folk do find her attractive, and good luck to her / them.

She wouldn’t let you anywhere near her!

None of the footballers she has slept with think of themselves as studs or get high fives, its quite the opposite. EVERYONE REGRETS TOUCHING HER, SOME CAN BARELY REMEMBER IT AS THEY WERE EXTREMELY DRUNK AND SHE WAS SOBER LIKE ALWAYS.
i can name 50 players off the top off my head that she has banged in the last 12 months and thats without putting any thought into it, im sure if i sat down and compiled a list it would be in the hundreds over a 2 year period.
Unfortunately for her soon to be hubby, miss palavi has not been entirely truthful to him, she has denied alot of events and blamed it in the media making up stories. those who know palavi know what a two bit nothing she really is and also know how terribly insecure and immature she is. we also know how often she has opened her legs to drunk footballers who still scrub their d*cks to this day. i can say i do not know one footballer who does not regret rooting her. she he a nutter and be careful mr browne, she is a cheater too..just ask dave, he will tell you!! oh and she is also the type of mongrel girl who sleeps with other womens men just to boost her esteem. sad waste of space

oh and she is ugly, that pic is quite a decent one of her but TRUST me when i say she is terrible in really life. guys only look at her tits not her face. and her tits arent even good.

MOVE ON CHARMYNE YOU LOSER

Loose Brown has a duck?

Having sat back for sometime now reading in amazement the comments you people make about me I thought it was only fair that I contribute.
Your attacks on my looks, my morals & my parenting skills are immature & unwarranted.
Im used to reading lies about me and attacks on my looks etc and I suppose with the media stories I have to expect this kind of backlash, so it barely fazes me BUT when u question me as a mother and a good provider to my children and you put my ex (brumbies player)David Palavi on a pedastal enough is enough. I left and abusive & unfaithful (on his part) relationship with him to protect my children, I was faithful to him for ten years and upon leaving him made some poor choices of partners ie Thurston & Senior, this far from makes me a slut. I am not the wann-a-be WAG you all make me out to be if that was the case I would of stuck around and turned a blind eye to the cheating,gambling,drinking, drugs etc like all the rest do. Those on here claiming to ‘know me’ but then writing lies – grow up!

AngryHenry said :

First she’s have to let me but I wouldn’t want to r**t her even if I’d borrowed Loose Brown’s d*ck.

I guess she will just have to go away and cry or jump off a bridge then.

what the…?

lovely language.

First she’s have to let me but I wouldn’t want to r**t her even if I’d borrowed Loose Brown’s d*ck.

I’d check her out just to see if she really is orange, or if it is an unfortunate coincidence that she is always photographed at sunset…

Of course we would check her out, hell i would check her out just to see how she fits so much woman into so little clothing. However, that doesn’t mean we think she’s good looking or that we’d want anything to do with her.

You could say the same thing if Paris Hilton or any other porn star walked into a room.

I thought the point of this thread was incredulity that some poor bloke had actually signed up to marry her.

Loose Brown said :

Deezagood – you are 100% right.

I’d say that 99% of the keyboard critics here would turn to jelly if they were approached by this self confident and (yes) attractive woman.

I’m thinking if all those footballers can get any girl, and they frequently chose Ms Palavi, she must have some major appeal for the majority of blokes out there.

Deezagood – you are 100% right.

I’d say that 99% of the keyboard critics here would turn to jelly if they were approached by this self confident and (yes) attractive woman.

appearances

I-filed said :

I dare any and all of the men posting that Ms Palavi is ugly, to post “worst shots” of their female partners for scrutiny … she’s actually pretty and has a good smile.

Irrespective of anybody’s personal tastes in women’s appearences/attire, I betcha if Ms Palavi walked into any bar wearing her usual (brief) attire, at least 90% of the blokes would check her out (including those blokes who posted about how unattractive she is here). And you can deny it all that you want!

charming

j from the block said :

Not quite, keep the body throw away the head.

Right! that’s it…

Not quite, keep the body throw away the head.

Ralph said :

Prawn.

+1

I might be wrong but I think it means you’d pull the head off before you ate it.

That old adage probably comes to mind for most guys… You don’t look at the mantle piece while stoking the fire.

Ralph said :

Prawn.

???

Prawn.

S’ok I-filed. I knew you were being ironic. Negative personal comments made via anonymous monikers are seen for what they are by most intelligent people.

Postalgeek said :

Does this thread really need to be subjected to that, I-filed?

My point exactly!

Low standards I-filed.

Does this thread really need to be subjected to that, I-filed?

So, sexual age. Take the age gaps of your oldest and youngest partners and add them e.g someone 10 years younger and someone 10 years older makes you 20.

I’m afraid I’m a very unremarkable 8 year old.

I dare any and all of the men posting that Ms Palavi is ugly, to post “worst shots” of their female partners for scrutiny … she’s actually pretty and has a good smile.

How do you know she is a witch?

Because the guys around her are absolutely newted

She floats when placed in water, Thumper.

Oh, “Way to go man!!!!!”

How do you know she is a witch?

Very good, Thumper!

Oops, think I was 33.

NGBFM – Not Good Boyfriend Material.

I am 14 years my bf’s senior (met at 34 and 19, turning 20) and I got cheers all round from my crowd, he got some eyebrows up until they met me and then they were fine.

Well I of course, see no problem with it. 🙂

What? harvey Norman?

Come on, it has the flashing light, manhos! manhos!
the last place I worked in providing that kind of service was a lot more subtle.

Sleeping in the dohouse outside

johnboy said :

FWIW I call blokes I know who sleep around, particularly with other people’s partners, “Dogs”.

I don’t mean it as a compliment to their friendly disposition and wagging tail.

Although this type of behaviour could lead them to scooting their bum on the carpet.

johnboy said :

FWIW I call blokes I know who sleep around, particularly with other people’s partners, “Dogs”.

I don’t mean it as a compliment to their friendly disposition and wagging tail.

I have always known them as ManHos, imagine my surprise when I saw the whitegoods place in fyshwick.

FWIW I call blokes I know who sleep around, particularly with other people’s partners, “Dogs”.

I don’t mean it as a compliment to their friendly disposition and wagging tail.

While we’re on the subject I think there is a difference between expressing your sexuality and promoting it, as soon as you start promoting something you invite criticism.

Charmyne is definitely promoting her sexuality, one quick Google search would attest to that.

At least with the group of folk I know, some who fall into the categorys described in these posts, some who don’t, the male stereotype of “stud” as opposed to “slut” is becoming a fairly moot point, having slept with dozens of people is fine, but if your crap in bed, it really doesn’t matter if you sleep with 100’s. You’re still crap in bed, you have just shown a lot more people you are crap in bed. The ability to have intercourse with other people, as opposed to say, treating a person right, is not really a high definition of a manly character.
Same for the woman in my circles, there are more things that define people than runs on the board, but as we tend to say “whatever floats your boat, just do it with consenting adults”.

Whatsup said :

VYBerlinaV8_the_one_they_all_copy said :

Just curious, but how do women view men that have had lots of sexual partners? Do women consider these men ‘sluts’?

Speaking on behalf of myself, not women in general. Yes, for want of a better word.

Then I guess, taking into account FC’s comments, that it probably isn’t unreasonable to expect a proportion of men to consider women who behave this way as sluts. Just a thought.

FC said :

What business is it of anyone else to judge ‘bad or good’ on how many lovers one has, or what type of sexual experienes they enjoy.

Let us try to empower ourselves, and each other to feel comfortable and confident enough with our sexuality to express it with fear of such harsh judgment from our peers.

In the meantime take care of yourself, and each other.

VyBerlina – from my perspective (being a woman)my view would be varied depending on the circumstances.
For example if a male had lots of sexual partners, and treated the partners with respect and honesty, then I would think that as long as no one is getting hurt then this is fine and his habits wouldn’t alter my opinion of him.
If the person was being manipulative or deceitful in order to have lots of sexual partners, then I would probably see them as a deceitful person who I would not really want to have interactions with.
So I guess my view of the person would be on the way they treat people, not on how many orgasms they have or don’t have per week.

Sexual encounters can be so varied and can be about giving, or taking, or using, or sharing, and many other things and each of these things (for me) completely change the dymanic of the encounter, and therefore my view of the encounter.

I have heard women call men “male slut’s” before and it really bothers me, and I have said as much. It is so hard for people to get a real understanding of an experience unless you are involved in the experience – which is why judging people from the outside is so dangerous and damaging.

What business is it of anyone else to judge ‘bad or good’ on how many lovers one has, or what type of sexual experienes they enjoy.

Let us try to empower ourselves, and each other to feel comfortable and confident enough with our sexuality to express it with fear of such harsh judgment from our peers.

VYBerlinaV8_the_one_they_all_copy said :

Just curious, but how do women view men that have had lots of sexual partners? Do women consider these men ‘sluts’?

Speaking on behalf of myself, not women in general. Yes, for want of a better word.

VYBerlinaV8_the_one_they_all_copy said :

Just curious, but how do women view men that have had lots of sexual partners? Do women consider these men ‘sluts’?

Love-rats? Lotharios?

Same-same but different.

This ‘because she’s a woman’ crap is getting pretty damn old. You’re doing the same thing that you accuse males of doing. You’re tarring all men with the same brush.

At the same time if you want to throw yourself in the same basket as Charmyne because YOU’RE a woman, I wont stop you.

However don’t you sheilas hate that when blokes do that to you?

FC said :

Becuase she’s a woman. Looks always seem to be relevant somehow :S

Or it could be because she works in the beauty industry and in every photo published of her, she is flaunting those “looks”.

Just curious, but how do women view men that have had lots of sexual partners? Do women consider these men ‘sluts’?

Becuase she’s a woman. Looks always seem to be relevant somehow :S

If a bloke had enjoyed the past sexual escapades of Ms Palavi, he would be considered a legend/stud/player etc… If this legend/stud/player had gotten himself engaged to a much younger girl, nobody would bat an eyelid.

How are the women’s looks relevant, in any way, to this post???

chewy14 said :

FC the bloke she is engaged to has a head like a beaten favourite too.

Only he’s not famous (or infamous), that’s why no one cares what he looks like.

I doubt that’s why chewy.

This thread is hilarious. This chick is copping a bagging because she is a cougar.

Hey honey – put your panties back in!

FC the bloke she is engaged to has a head like a beaten favourite too.

Only he’s not famous (or infamous), that’s why no one cares what he looks like.

Postalgeek said :

ah chewy, I think multi-million dollar men’s cosmetic, hair restoration, fashion, fitness, and motor vehicle industries would disagree with you.

Would that be opposed to the multi billion dollar female versions?

ah chewy, I think multi-million dollar men’s cosmetic, hair restoration, fashion, fitness, and motor vehicle industries would disagree with you.

We are all judged, and we all judge.

It is the way we are.

Perhaps men are judged more by the look of their partner than by their own looks ?

chewy – I don’t think the difference is just that men don’t give a rats about what people think.
Notice that there is not one comment about the looks of the male she is engaged too. Why is this we may ask. Is it because it is irrevant, as a man has other features more important for their desirability as a partner?
If this was a story about a young woman and an older man, no doubt the young womans appearance would be in question, and maybe a few comments about the older male if he is unattractive, and then a calls for a ‘pat on the back’ for him if the young girls is attractive.
It goes far deeper than men just not caring what people think, because even that has a lot to do with how men and women are valued in this society and with men, looks is not so wrapped in their primary worth.
Of course men are judged on their looks, but not in the same way, nor as severely as women.

Think she looks a lot like Helen Hunt in some of those photos…

Granny said :

It really annoys me when men rate how a woman looks when they are probably quite nice but average to look at themselves. What gives them the right? It’s completely demeaning. Just because you are not physically attracted to someone is no reason to think that others aren’t … which they clearly are. Women are really suffering because of thoughtless comments like this. In India they’re putting lead on their faces to make their skin whiter, because they can never be white enough to be pretty. In Australia we’re starving ourselves and undergoing painful surgery, just so we can be good enough.

They’re two people in love. Even if it doesn’t last what harm is there in letting them enjoy a little bit of happiness?

Granny,
if you think that women don’t judge men by the way they look in exactly the same way then you are severely deluded. The difference is most men couldn’t give a rats arse what other people think of them.
This could also have something to do with the fact that most men think they are a lot better looking than they really are.

I don’t have this problem, i really am an Adonis.

Hugh Lews said :

Post #32 by Granny

That’s classic ‘ugly girl syndrome’ talking.

She’s a pig, but not just cause she’s ugly or fat or orange or looks a bit like a guy. She’s just a pig. Some girls are. It’s no ones fault.

Surely its her actions and, sociologically speaking, the roles she plays in society that define her and not her looks?

And who are you calling ugly in your post?

I have what’s called ‘outter beauty’.

But yes, I concede, I’m very ugly on the inside.

I’m sure you’re no portrait of beauty yourself Hugh-Lews.

Post #32 by Granny

That’s classic ‘ugly girl syndrome’ talking.

She’s a pig, but not just cause she’s ugly or fat or orange or looks a bit like a guy. She’s just a pig. Some girls are. It’s no ones fault.

She is a pig ugly slapper.

She didnt even marry Palavi, she just changed her name to his.

100% class.

I say it will last 6 months at a pint of beer from all bar, anyone else?

+1 to post #9

Seriously…I find it more interesting to watch paint dry. Who cares, I just hope he is content with his Mother accepting her…knowing her history. We could make bets on how long this relationship will last.

(yawn) Back to work I guess..

Sorry Johnboy. It just makes my blood boil to read some of this crap.

Alright kids… let’s pull back from calling each other names shall we?

knockknock-eggman said :

Granny…are you the-riotact fun police ? seriously…you don’t need to throw your 2 cents on every subject just to be heard.

This woman is obviously a rubbish human being – acting the way she does and putting herself in the public eye…she is obviously screaming for attention. She opens herself up for scrutiny. And from the way this forum works she will get it.

‘I am right’ sounds like an arrogant pompous old git

“is obviously a rubbish human being”
is it that bloody obviously you absolute twit? I think not.
And Granny may comment on a lot of threads, but I’m glad that at least a voice like hers can be heard so that people don’t begin to think that all online commenters are moronic tools like youself.

Granny…are you the-riotact fun police ? seriously…you don’t need to throw your 2 cents on every subject just to be heard.

This woman is obviously a rubbish human being – acting the way she does and putting herself in the public eye…she is obviously screaming for attention. She opens herself up for scrutiny. And from the way this forum works she will get it.

‘I am right’ sounds like an arrogant pompous old git

I know this person better than most. You are giving her exactly what she wants, notoriety. Honestly I’ve not met too many people that like to talk about themselves more than her.

Underneath however I expect she is a very insecure person with an unquenchable thirst for validation. I actually think it’s pretty sad but then again her pride/vanity wouldn’t allow her to fully understand her own behaviour.

I know for a fact that if she hadn’t had a boob job and a spray tan half of those football players would not look twice at her. That probably says nmore about those guys than it does her. I just don’t know what kind of a person would seek the approval of someone as shallow as that.

We all have different ideas of what happiness and leading a satisfying life is obviously. All the best Charmyne! More importantly, look after your kids.

OK Danman. I mistook.

Charmaynes looks/age is not the only issue here. It is her behaviour. She gets no sympathy from me for being a brazen hussy, nor did the likes of Paris Hilton until she reformed.

Is it not sad, just because she is woman and a cougar we should have some sympathy for her and say good on the love birds? But if it was some old geezer getting it off with a young model, we would all snigger behind the mans back and say gold digger/cradle snatcher but more probably pat the man on the back?

Granny I’m with you on this one.
I don’t see what the big deal is with the age difference.
Oh.. that’s right. the WOMANS older.. Now I’d have no issue with dating someone that much older than me (I wouldn’t go that much younger because it is highly illegal and just gross) but you see it all the time with the sexes reversed.

I am disgusted at how judgmental some of the people on here how. Wake up people. This are not always black and white- or as simple as they may appear. And being spoon fed information from the media is hardly going to give anyone the full picture.

Pandy – I think you mistook my post as aimed at you – guilty much ?

It was a general indication of society – and I duly note you have your observations as well…

Please note that I also said “more than liklely” – not “It is exclusive that…”

As you were…

Danman, no I am not in grade school. Neither a) or b). My misses often tells me this guy or that looks unattractive (she has an aversion to beards) and/or smells.

You are deluded to think that men do not look at a woman and think she is “hot”. deluded.

Pick-up any of the dozens of teen/women magazines, and see for yourself that women want to be “beautiful”. But maybe love is blind, and no-one is saying a thing about the woman you love. But your reaction seems to indicate a bit of insecurity on your part and I guess your misses, or grannies, will be safe from glances from me.

Good to see that superficiallity is alive and well in our community still.

With attitudes like that one must assume you are all still in grade school.

If I heard anyone say anything like that about anyone I love, because they do not quate to what you think is “hot” you would be flat on your back on the way to the ER quick smart…mark my words.

More than likely that the people who say these things are either a)Single or b)Only say things like this behind their partners back..

Never mind, the more people you write off your list – the more opportunity they have for getting into a real relationship.

Sure Charmayne may not be my cup of tea, but she certainly isn’t ugly – and beauty is 90% personality anyway, so how can you judge from a picture… Fools.

No not just “purely” on her attractiveness but on her cougar and shameful activities.

Still amazed that any boy can be attracted to a scrape like her.

And if you think I judge a woman who is easy on the eyes, well welcome to life.

I find it distressing that the default position for some of the commenters is so … well, so mean!

It really shows a person up as having been stomped on at a formative age, if rather than show compassion for such a train wreck, all they can do sling mud.

Either that, or it is just ignorance. Painfully shallow ignorance, to post commments purely based on one’s individual assessment of her attractiveness.

Bleh.

Are you talking to me?

I know everything about everyone because I read the internet and that gives me the right to judge.

I agree, Cletus 2.

Even people who outwardly seem shallow and nasty are made of fragile and scared and flawed pieces inside. They want to fit in, to be liked, scared of rejection, loneliness, failure. It reminds me of myself, and of people I know and love. Everybody is beautiful like that on the inside, I think.

The facade, in large part, is formed in response to one’s experiences of other people.

Will you look at the slideshow!!! she has men snuggling in her boobs, getting spray tanned and worse.

She is a joke!

I am right.

Granny, you have a chip on your shoulder.

Obviously she is a cougar and he is a child

It really annoys me when men rate how a woman looks when they are probably quite nice but average to look at themselves. What gives them the right? It’s completely demeaning. Just because you are not physically attracted to someone is no reason to think that others aren’t … which they clearly are. Women are really suffering because of thoughtless comments like this. In India they’re putting lead on their faces to make their skin whiter, because they can never be white enough to be pretty. In Australia we’re starving ourselves and undergoing painful surgery, just so we can be good enough.

They’re two people in love. Even if it doesn’t last what harm is there in letting them enjoy a little bit of happiness?

Hahahahaha! Look at the slideshow!
Monaghan has become an “unknown man” as he should have stayed.

With a face like that, she must have some better talents. Gawd she is scary.

Why not?

This is how no-talent people make money and get fame…by people like you’s giving a sh-t.

Barf: She has fat face and looks old. She cannot be that good in bed can she?

eyelikeCarrots
I ped myself larfing!!!

I’ve pulled one of the most well known women in Australia.

True in all meanings of the word ‘known’.

still looks pretty orange to me

Never enter into a relationship with a chick with a runny nose

She’s full.

fabforty said :

Can’t wait for the wedding photos.

There could be a wardrobe malfunction at some stage during the ceremony.

Can’t wait for the wedding photos.

Henny_Penny said :

When she walked in Charmyne lifted her t-shirt and said – look at these beauties, just got ‘em enlarged. Noice.

Pure class.

It won’t last – he’s too old.

My sister got a fake tan off her once. When she walked in Charmyne lifted her t-shirt and said – look at these beauties, just got ‘em enlarged.
Noice.

They suit each other I am thinking.

If he is dumb enough to go there, he is dumb enough to deserve her.

When did johnboy turn on the scent feature of RA ?

I can smell the skank through my screen, its amazing….

Someone post a report about a bakery and see if it still works.

Is it just, i reckon she has a head like a dropped pie.
Body aint bad but arghhh that head.

Oops, just saw the Palavi connection in the OP. That is actually worse

So how did you meet your wife?

She introduced herself to me after she thought she had slept with everyone else in the team.

BTW, Palavi is an Islander-style surname and she doesn’t look islander to me. But let me guess, she was married to a Palavi, he rissoled her when he discovered what she really was, but she hangs onto the surname for prestige and cred amongst his former peers.

There is a word for her…..and we all know it

if I wanted a box of assorted creams I get an Arnott’s family pack…

she is just plain skanky isn’t she? ugh.

she is scary as hell, but reminds me of people I know unfortunately

*sigh*…

So she thinks that by acting like the sexual predator who first seduced her as a young girl, she reclaims control over her own sexuality… having become a ‘bad girl’ for letting her seducer initiate her, she ‘owns’ that designation by being one.

Of course, currently she is, emotionally speaking, stuck at/near the age at which that happened… so to her, boys just out of their teens are peers. Not to mention, with her previous experience as a base-line, an age gap like that is just standard.

Yes, her behaviour is inappropriate. But it also indicates the sexualisation of an immature girl, well before she evolved an adult personality.

Cynically, I am of the opinion that those poor guys are groomed by their football clubs; it makes it much easier to sell football as the huge industry it is, setting up the whole rigmarole of the glamour/alcohol/bonding through sex and camps.

the pic in womans day consisted of her standing there in a t-shirt – yes JUST a tshirt

This guy mustn’t have much Charmysma. In most cases it has taken a lot less.

chewy14 = LOL!!!!

Who said that Rugby Union players were smarter than League Players?

At least the league players know that it’s better to Rent a depreciating asset rather than buy.

See the um… nice… couple.
http://www.news.com.au/perthnow/story/0,21598,25687485-5001021,00.html

I’d be double-bagging just in case, Michael…
You can take the wizards’ sleeve out of the unprotected group sex environment but you can’t take the unprotected group sex out of the wizards’ sleeve.

Also, isn’t this guy only a bit older than Charymne’s daughter?

There are better and more honorable ways to make your name as a footballer.

It’s true everlasting love. They will be together for ever.

Why the hell would he buy the book when he can join the library like everyone else??